I say that Barry is my partner, but as far as the website goes, he is a silent partner. I get the models, I shoot the videos, I make all the decisions, I handle all the orders, etc, etc... He knows that it is pretty much my baby, and he lets me do it all. However, I finally decided that it was time for him to come out into the spotlight and do his own video, and it wasn't an easy sell. Despite the fact that Barry is a performer, he is not as exhbitionistic when it comes to being himself. Give him a costume and choreography and he is good to go, but take the clothes off of him and ask him to be himself in front of a camera, and you've got a problem.
The way I finally convinced him to do a video was to point out that if he did it we wouldn't have to pay a model. Ever the practical one, he agreed, if he could do stretches in the video. Since he is so amazingly flexible, that wasn't an issue, but I also asked him to do a shower scene. I expected him to balk at that, but to my surprise he agreed! You can also imagine my surprise when I was videotaping my ever-practical partner showering in his underwear, and I noticed that is dick was rock hard! For as much as he protested about doing the video, he certainly seemed to be enjoying it! And it's very hard to miss... my partner is very blessed in that area (smug smile).